The definitions of hell and a nightmare= RELATIONSHIPS!!!

                                  Relationships man what can i say ... you have to really be strong! I like to think of them as a sims game.. maybe thats just the nerd in me. However they are tough. They can turn you into a different person either good or bad. For example, we have seen it all so many times the guy who is like the all time player mr. im never going to fall in love. All of a sudden this woman comes along and changes his whole outlook on life! I mean he changes everything from the friends he use to hang with and the places he use to go hang out at! It can go the same for the woman. That my friends is the good! However what about the freaken BAD! I mean you take a happy easy going sweet person and all of a sudden because of all the hardships they have suffered in the relationship, they are now like a raging bull!!! Everything upsets them. Everything is taken personally. Even when fun and greatness is right in front of them they can only think of the past and what have done to them that pissed them off!! They become this person that no one wants to hang around because when they do they know that there significant other will pop up and next thing you know they have talked to you for atleast an hour. They will never move forward and get over it, even if they find someone else. They will only just bring the bagage into the next chapter of thier life. How do i know this.. I use to be one, and im still tryna deal with it. Everytime i see my husband i either want to hug and kiss him or knee him in the grongs!!! The definitions of hell and a nightmare=RELATIONSHIPS.. please save me!!