Cant let the kids go!!!

    Okay question so when is it a good time to tell your husband thath you dont want to work. That your place is here with the kids, you know to watch them grow or what not. I mean atleast till they get in the double digits!!!! Sucks because i dont how to say it. Im not lazy or anything... just dont wana miss my kids growing up =( ... is that so much to ask. Is there anyone else out there that feels the same?? You know when he gets home from work and eats this nice meal i cooked for him.... I am going to tell him!! Thats right im just gona say it!! O lord pray for me =)